Has Feminism And 'Hoeflation' Destroyed Dating In The West?

Ron: Hoeflation has destroyed a lot more than dating in the West. Hoeflation is a symptom of the disintegration of family & community life & the harbinger of societal suicide.

https://www.zerohedge.com/political/has-feminism-and-hoeflation-destroyed-dating-west

BY TYLER DURDEN

MONDAY, JAN 01, 2024 - 01:00 PM

It's a problem in the western world that is rarely discussed in the media beyond puff-piece articles and glancing polls that avoid connecting the dots.   The precipitous decline of dating, committed relationships and marriage along with a flatline in population in the past couple decades in the US is treated as a novelty issue rather than the threat to the stability of civilization that it actually is.  History shows that without the traditional family structure, numerous ugly societal consequences follow.

One could argue, though, that the situation is far worse than that.  We may be heading into a future where families become a novelty, and many argue that the root cause is feminism and the hyperinflated delusions of progressive women.

In order to understand the problem we have to look at the stats. 

More than 50% of American women are still childless by age 30.  By age 35 fertility goes into steep decline with women having a 15% chance of becoming pregnant, and a less than 5% chance of motherhood at age 40.  Meaning, the best window of opportunity for women to find a compatible partner and build a family is in their 20s.  

Feminists argue, though, that this is the time in a woman's life when they should be building a career and having fun.  Family life, they say, is an artificial prison “created by the patriarchy” in order to oppress the fairer sex.  Corporate media and Hollywood entertainment often reinforce this narrative and encourage unrealistic life goals.

The propaganda has generated what many refer to as the “Female Happiness Paradox.”  Surveys show that increased power, job access and responsibility for women in society since the 1970s has also led to a diametrically opposed decline in overall happiness for those same women.  The correlation suggests the exact opposite of what feminism originally promised and that the ideology has been a net negative.

Though some will argue that a general decline in economic conditions is the real cause, surveys show that women have suffered a far more pronounced drop in happiness compared to men.  Meaning, men were already acclimated to the struggles of the workaday world and their roles as providers and protectors.  Women were happy until they joined men in the trenches.  

For men, the reaction has been to back away from the dating scene and the double standards involved.  Over 63% of men under the age of 30 are now single; that's up from 51% in 2019.  The majority of single men say this is by choice and that they are seeking to avoid relationships altogether.  Why?  The consensus appears to be that modern western women cost too much money and cause too much trouble.

Fear of failed marriage is one aspect that has the younger generation of men on edge, with family courts still largely in favor of women in divorce settlements and child custody.  This is one reason why marriage rates have declined by 60% since the 1970s.  However, the obstacles go well beyond divorce and into a new culture of female entitlement.    

The word on the street is “Hoeflation”:  The dramatic increase in cost for men today to maintain a relationship with a woman while the quality of women continues to go down.  That is to say, it is an increase in female expectations vs what they bring to the table in a relationship.  

In other words, women of the past used to have something to offer beyond sexual companionship, from greater femininity, greater potential for motherhood, less combativeness and narcissism, as well as a superior ability to raise children and maintain a home.  Such traits are highly attractive to men even after 60 years of widespread feminism, but are seen as non-existent among women under 30 in 2023.

It should be noted that “Hoeflation” seems to be directly linked to progressive influences, and not all women fall into this category.  Unfortunately, around 71% of young women identify with progressive beliefs, as opposed to young men who are only 53% progressive.  It should also be noted that progressive today means something a lot different from what it meant in the 1990s (progressive now means woke, or extreme leftist cultism).    

A majority of American women have cast off their traditional roles in exchange for modern feminist ideals while still expecting traditional roles for men.  Dating, younger men complain, is now more like a job interview with scrutiny of their finances a primary topic.  Beyond that, the online meat market isn't helping.  Dating app research shows that 80% of western women are all chasing after the top 20% or less of men, with earning potential being the biggest factor next to physical attractiveness.    

A recent viral trend on social media in which women made a list of restaurants that they would refuse to eat at on a first date exemplifies the concept of “Hoeflation.” 

The Cheesecake Factory in particular was consistently mentioned as a “red flag” for “cheap men.”  Spending of up to $200 or more was presented as a bare minimum for a first date, and only 26% of women indicated they are willing to split the tab.  First dates used to be an opportunity for men and women to decide if there is a chance for compatibility, now progressive women expect grand gestures of wealth and ambition.  Like Valentine's Day, but everyday.  

What feminism has done, essentially, is hyper-exaggerate women's natural inclination to seek out more productive men, while also hyper-exaggerating their sense of self worth and making them insufferable.  

Women who have nothing to offer have been inculcated with delusions of grandeur.  So much so that the question “what do you bring to the table” is sneered at – “I am the table” is their response.  There is no cure for this level of narcissism except hitting rock bottom, which is an outcome that western women (and society as a whole) are swiftly approaching          

The problem is not as historically entrenched as one might think, with Gen Z being the biggest deviation with the worst prospects for relationships among all other generations.  Feminism has been an ever present agenda but Gen Z has been hit with the brunt of the fallout in the span of a single decade.  We can hope, however, that as quickly as the cancer of feminism has spread it might recede.  If the greatest damage was done within one or two generations, maybe a cure can be applied in the next generation.   

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Ron: Hoeflation was a primary goal of the Khazarian Mafia (KM) Talmudists when they introduced ‘Feminism’ and ‘Teenageism’ to Western Christendom. The aim was to destroy masculine and feminine roles in society in order to destroy morality, family life and the ability of nations to reproduce themselves. The near doubling of the paid work force and income taxation was a useful additional benefit though not essential since fractional reserve banking already kept the population impoverished and dependent . See:

Also by the 1930s huge increases in productivity caused by technological advances already required the KM globalist controllers to devise more and more make-work mechanisms to keep their free range serfs poor and ‘busy’, albeit not ”barefoot in the kitchen”. Hence the proliferation of part time work and endless worker commutes to and from employment.

When Karl Marx, that infamous (among many) Ashkenazi, wrote words to the effect: “Religion is the opiate of the people” in the mid 19th century the truth of that proposition was already dissipating and the KM knew it. They realised they needed suitable meretricious replacements. They came up with Communism, Bolshevism, Fascism and Maoism but those ideologies also quickly lost their appeal as science and technology rapidly improved productivity and lifestyle possibilities for the KM’s global slave populations.

Talmudists like the Rockefellers developed compulsory factory schooling to confuse, dumb down and dull the personal sensibilities of the masses. And of course the KM continued to use conflicts and warfare to cull the herd, destroy surplus production and substantially prevent the benefits of increased industrial production from being shared equitably with their human free range serfs. Even so, that duplicitous Ashkenazi plagiarist Einstein, noted in the 1930s that humanity had solved the production problem. Ironically that situation emerged despite the efforts of Einstein’ and other KM agents to inhibit scientific and technological progress using Darwinian evolutionary bullshit and misleading scientific formula like Energy = mass by acceleration squared. Of course the KM also had to suppress real scientific discoveries and technological developments like those produced by Nikola Tesla. Incidentally, those suppressed technologies will be released as soon as the anti-KM Global Alliance replaces all the KM controlled globalist governments.

The KM had to somehow curb population growth, especially as the population reductions they achieved in the developed European world with their genocidal Bolshevik Revolution unleashed upon Orthodox Christian Russia and their genocide of Christian Germans and Europeans using WWI, the Great Depression and WWII weren’t sufficient. Similarly, their use of the US military to genocide the Japanese in WWII; and Koreans, Vietnamese, Cambodians and Indonesians thereafter, combined with the Maoist Revolution’s elimination of some 80 million Chinese, also failed to reduce global population growth. Even the endless bombings, invasions and occupations of dozens of nations by the KM controlled Anglo-US puppet regimes and NATO couldn’t stop population expansion so another solution had to be found.

The KM’s genius solution has been the gradual poisoning of water food and air combined with imposition of the genocidal allopathic medical industry and vaccines to accompany the Gramscian slow motion takeover of Western institutions ably assisted by the roll out of Feminism, Consumerism and Teenageism which enabled cultural Marxism and Wokeism to flourish and destroy the mentation and moral capacity of a majority of the population in advanced global economies. That solution has also been insufficient and so the KM inflicted the COVID-19 scamdemic and lethal “vaccines” that kill, maim and induce infertility in males and females, upon the global population. That genocidal attempt has also failed and so the KM are planning to unleash another scamdemic global attack during the Paris Olympic Games in 2024. See eg:

The Talmudists used Feminism to almost double the tax paying wage-slave work force which screwed up Western societies making the populations’ free range serfdom ever more onerous and sending nations into a death spiral in which they can no longer reproduce themselves so that the Talmudic banksters who control governments have been able to increasingly replace Western developed nation populations with fecund, lower IQ, easily manipulated, Third World refugees and economic migrants. In some virulent cases like Japan and South Korea, the collapse of sexual morality and family aspirations have resulted in population declines that appear to be terminal.

The process of destroying fertility and sexual morality was greatly accelerated by the contraceptive pill which enabled females to sleep around without consequences in the same way that irresponsible males have always been able to do. The resultant destruction of feminine attitudes and values and the concomitant declines in family formation and reproduction rates are obvious. THAT, is in effect, SOFT genocide, because it amounts to inducing national physical and cultural suicide. THAT trend has been reinforced by Big Pharma drugs; subsidised abortions; and allopathic medical interventions designed to increase infertility and ill health. Those interventions include myriad toxic activities including mammograms and radiation therapy for cancer imbalances that ordinarily healthy immune systems would eliminate naturally.

The other long term KM mechanism for destroying the creative high IQ Westernised national populations and their economies has been the imposition of mandatory factory schooling which now engulfs most children’s lives from infancy until adulthood. See eg:

The confusing scrambled emotional and informational environment created by full time institutional ‘factory’ schooling from infancy has made it easy for governments, the MSM and advertisers to distort and trivialise everything including sexuality, morality, family life and child rearing. The cumulative effect of this manipulation of female attitudes and aspirations in Western societies has been manipulated and socially conditioned societal self destruction. The result is not only misery for most of the population but societal suicide for Western nations.

For good measure the Talmudists controlling Western nations have used government schooling to confuse, dumb down and infantalise childrens so that, as adults, they are unable to think clearly having never receive reliable information about life, the universe and everything. This situation is enhanced by mothers working for wages instead of home making, child rearing and community building, so that parents lack the time and energy to guide their children’s moral, social and life education. Accordingly those processes are left to strangers, paid teachers whose mind controlled societal conditioning didn’t cease at age 18 but was reinforced with several years of additional ‘factory style’ brain washing in teacher training and university institutions. The outcome is societal chaos and disaster with teachers inculcating in impressionable kindergarteners the idea that boys can be girls and vice versa; and ‘schooling’ them in ‘Wokeism’ and various sexual practices including homosexual techniques.

The societal environment created by full time institutional ‘factory’ schooling combined with Feminism and the pretence that children must be treated like adults; given the vote and have their ignorant and immature opinions on the environment and everything else given political clout, results in the situation in which children like ‘St Greta’ appear to be running the global asylum.

This has made it easy for governments, the MSM and advertisers to distort and trivialise everything including morality, family life and child rearing. The result is increasing misery for most of the population as Western societies have been manipulated and socially conditioned to self destruct with females’ excessive expectations causing them to alienate most young males. Thus we get plummeting family formation and birth rates signalling the cultural and physical suicide of erstwhile Christian Western nations. Governments conceal these suicidal societal trends by importing hordes of low IQ Third World refugees and migrants that are steadily replacing White Western populations. This accords with the Kalegi Plan ennunciated in the 1920s at the same time as Antonio Gramsci published his methodology for the Communist infiltration of Western nations by KM agents. See eg: youtube.com/watch?v=s7Vk657QLyI&t=8s

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For an indication of the misery inflicted on females by Feminism see eg:

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