Be Happy! Not "GOOD".

Ron: 'The Kingdom of Heaven' is love. Choose happiness no matter what happens to you. You are a part of, & destined to be reunited with, the Creator. Your thoughts determine your experience & destiny.

This lass provides excellent advice to females and everyone:

She says women should concentrate on being “happy” and forget about being “good” wives and mothers, working day and night with outside employment while also cooking, cleaning and caring for husbands and children etc, etc, AND getting frazzled and very sour and angry doing it. She says husbands are more concerned about their wives being happy and good company rather than working day and night and creating negative vibes around her all the time.

[NB: I’ve inadvertantly lost the brilliant original short youtube video by this lady so it’s omitted here.].

As they say: “Where attention goes, energy flows”. In other words, what you focus on, you get. OR, the negative way of putting it is: ‘ The pessimist is as much in need of what s/he has as of what s/he has not”.

The cosmos is conscious matter created by myriad varied energetic vibrations emanating from the mind of the Creator.  Ensouled human beings represent the peak of that conscious manifestation in that they not only embody the life force constituted by consciousness in matter but are also indwelt by a spark of Creator consciousness that imparts spirituality and the prospect of eternal existence. That’s something to be happy about. Temporary physical and emotional vicissitudes become insignificant when compared to that prospect.

Choosing or allowing ourselves to be unhappy hinders and sabotages our life potential and relationships with others. Nothing is, but thinking makes it so. Unhappy thoughts create angry and negative or depressing emotions and those energetic vibrations impact our physical bodies and the emotions and physical reactions of those around us as well as our surrounding physical environment.

Unfortunately we learn our reactions to life, the universe and everything from parents, siblings and out community in the first seven years of life when we haven’t yet developed the ability to think objectively and understand what is happening to us and around us. That is because the growing brain has to assimilate information before it can think about it. During that first seven years of life we unconsciously absorb attitudes via a process akin to programming a computer and the results tend to become hard wired into our brains and bodies. Very often those ideas and attitudes are inappropriate and counterproductive but unless we consciously realise that, and consciously and consistently seek to understand and change those ideas and attitudes, they become the programs that run our life. Why? Because about 95% of the time our daily activities are run unconsciously using programs most of which were developed in those first seven years of life.

Bruce Lipton explains the mechanisms involved and what we need to do to deprogram ourselves to avoid endlessly repeating inappropriate and self limiting thoughts, feeling and actions which prevent us growing spiritually and being happy. See eg: Bruce Lipton The Biology of Belief Full Lecture: 

This one is much shorter but very good also - The Biology of Belief: Here's How to Change Your Reality:

All this is to say that this lady’s advice is absolutely correct. Moreover, it isn’t only correct as regards enabling women to improve their relationships to their husbands and children to be positive and thriving, they are applicable to husbands and fathers and indeed everyone in all walks of life.

So, take her advice to heart Pilgrims, and to effectuate it, get information from Bruce Lipton on how to overcome your negative early life emotional and social conditioning and learning to be happy. His advice is very sound.

Happiness and abundance are as freely available from the Cosmos as are breathing. They will come with the territory, once the Khazarian Mafia and their global control matrix are removed.

Ron

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